To help everyone feel safe, seen, and comfortable, we’ve put together some friendly reminders on safety and etiquette. These tips ensure your SameKind experience stays welcoming and easygoing for all.
Before the Dinner
Keep the Mystery
We don’t encourage pre-dinner chat. Part of the magic is meeting someone for the first time—live, not through a screen. If you do connect with someone ahead of time, keep it brief and respectful. Let the dinner table do the talking.
Safety First
Tell a friend or loved one where you’re going, who you’re with, and what time you’re expected back. We’ll always share the venue info beforehand so you can plan ahead.
Be Prepared
Arrive with:
An open mind
A hunger for good food and better conversation
Your reservation name or table number handy
Need a menu sneak peek? Feel free to check the restaurant online in advance.
After the Dinner
Want to Keep in Touch?
We recommend exchanging details only with people you genuinely trust. There’s no pressure to connect beyond the event if it doesn’t feel right.
Pro tip: If you had a great convo, follow up the next day instead of at 2am. Thoughtfulness goes a long way.
Safety Reminders
Never share sensitive financial details with anyone you’ve just met.
If someone makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, report it to us here. We take it seriously and will handle it discreetly.
Getting Home
If you’ve had anything to drink, don’t drive. Use a taxi, Grab, or a ride-sharing app.
Never accept a ride from someone under the influence—no matter how friendly they seem.
Extra Tips
Personal Safety
Keep your belongings in sight.
Watch your drink.
Ask staff about allergens if you have any.
Know your limits—no one wants to see you slurring over dessert.
Food Etiquette
Come hungry and curious. We’ve picked this spot with care.
Sharing plates? Awesome. Just check in with the group first on dietary needs.
When in doubt, ask what everyone’s okay with ordering.
Splitting the Bill
We love restaurants that split bills—but not all can.
Bring a bit of cash or a payment app just in case.
Choose what works best as a group: split evenly, or pay your own way. Be kind, not fussy.
Tipping
If tipping is customary in your country, aim for 15–20%.
A good meal and great service deserve appreciation.
Conversation & Behavior
Respect differences. You don’t have to agree, just be kind.
Avoid heavy or divisive topics unless the group welcomes it.
Share the mic. If you’ve spoken a lot, invite others in.
Laugh, reflect, listen. Be generous with your attention.
SameKind is not a dating service. Flirtation, innuendo, or inappropriate comments aren’t welcome. We’re here for connection, not confusion.
Show Up on Time
Arriving late throws off the vibe for everyone.
Please also avoid last-minute cancellations if you can—your presence matters.
Dietary Needs?
Let the staff know early if you have allergies or preferences. We try to work with venues that accommodate diverse needs.
Content Rights
We sometimes snap photos at dinners to share the spirit of SameKind.
By joining an event, you consent to potentially being in those images.
Want a photo taken down? Let us know and we’ll do our best to help quickly.
In Case of Emergency
Call local emergency services immediately.
If you’re unsure who to contact, this list may help.
By following these tips, you help create the kind of dinner table we all want to sit at—respectful, warm, and easy to be yourself at.
Thanks for being part of SameKind and for making space for real conversations and kind company.
For any questions or support, you can always reach us here.